Thursday, January 14, 2010

Encouraged.

Thank you so much to all of you who let me know you were reading during international de-lurking week.  It meant the world to me to hear from all of you.  I felt so discouraged after the below trip to Wal-Mart when I saw one of our sisters hurting, and I did nothing.  I prayed that if God wanted me to speak to her that He would give me the opportunity, but I struggled with why He would let me overhear her conversation if He didn't want me to speak with her.  After reading your comments, it is clear to me that God let me see the girl in the purple shirt so that He could encourage some of you who needed to know that you are not alone.  Some of you mentioned that you haven't shared your struggles yet with anyone in real life.  It really is such a hard decision of when and who to share infertility with because sometimes putting yourself out there can lead to some hurtful comments but at the same time, it is very hard to walk this journey alone.  If you aren't ready to share with those in real life (and only you and your husband will know when is the right time) know that there is an amazing support group in the infertility blogging community.  A good place to start is Stirrup Queens with her very well organized blogroll of the ALI (adoption, loss, infertility) community.  Your encouraging comments have made me start thinking and praying more about Praying for a Little One as I really would like to be able to continue to write about infertility.  More on that later...  

2 comments:

Ashley Gregg said...

Hi there!

My name is Ashley and I have a little girl named Hannah who is about the same age as your little guy. I have been following your blog for a while now and have been meaning to post so many times. :)

Our situations have been so similar: We both went through infertility, had our babies around the same time and dealt with many of the same issues throughout early motherhood (reflux, babywise and so on).

Your "de-lurking" post finally reminded me that I really need to comment.

Hope to hear from you soon!

ashley
ashleygregg.blogspot.com
avgregg@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Courtney:

I am a fellow past infertile that began following you through prayingforalittleone. My husband and I were infertile for 11 years and just had a baby girl.

I was so excited when I read y'all were expecting and I have enjoyed all of your wisdom. Henry is 2 months ahead of my little girl so it's been fun reading your experiences in anticipation of what I will face.

God Bless!!!